Today, I wanted to share about a "tooth-cutting" celebration that I went to last Friday.
The baby directly below us has cut her first teeth. So, her mom had the local hoca (think pastor) come around to read the Quran and pray for the baby.
After we all finished that, we all got the chance to pray for the baby. Then they do this traditional little ceremony to sort of bless the baby's future.
First they set the baby up on the floor. Then they loaded up a tray with things that symbolize careers- scissors for a beautician, book for a teacher, pencil for a writer, etc.
Then 7 different ladies sprinkled fully cooked bulgar (sort of like rice and about the size of baby teeth) on her head while she looked at the tray.
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| The mom springing the bulgar on the baby's head. |
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| I even got to be one of the seven who sprinkled the bulgar on her head. |
In the end, the baby picked up the little books of prayers. Everyone was delighted at the possibility that she could be a hoca when she grows up.
After that the mother gave a handful of the bulgar to the person who had the best teeth. Guess who that was?!
ME!!
So I ate that and it sort of symbolized the hope for the baby to have good teeth.
Did I explain that decently? It's all sort of weird. But the fun weird, not the creepy weird!
Finally, the mom had a huge feast prepared. She had all sorts of dishes that symbolized different things. She even had her mother-in-law bring so local ingredients from their village out east.
All in all it was a fun and special way to honor my sweet neighbor and her baby. My neighbor had been hoping for a baby for 7 years and had 7 miscarriages. So this baby truly is a blessing!




















































