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Friday, January 17, 2014

It's all a Matter of Perspective

Every person has a different way of looking at things.

I ran across a list of maps that give a humorous picture of how different cultures look at other cultures and countries.  Here are two that I found interesting:



You could go to the website (written in small type under the title) and see the rest.  I do have to warn you that it's a secular site and has some bad language.

Here's my own story of perspective...

One day I was in the restroom of a large shopping center with Lucy. We were walking out of the bathroom stall when an old lady asked if the toilet in our stall was normal (we have sittys and squattys here).  I said, "yes," so she went in.  She came out disgusted and mad at me for incorrectly telling her it was a normal toilet.  In her view a squatty is normal, whereas in mine a sitty is normal!

Thursday, January 16, 2014

What's for Dinner, Mom?

This is the question that the kids always ask the minute they get home from school.  I'm lucky if I even get a hello first!


At least tonight's answer of pancakes was met with cheers of joy all around!

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

This and That

We are finishing up the the kids' first school semester and all looking forward to the two week winter break.  The kids get their report cards on January 24th and then it's two weeks of holiday homework!  HA!  We are praying the teachers are merciful and only give a tad bit.  It is supposed to be a break, after-all.  However, that's not really a concept here.  It's typically all homework all the time!

Anyhow, I have a couple of non-related things to share today:

1. Please continue to pray hard for the baby and his adoptive parents.  The bureaucracy involved is pretty intense!  We need the Lord to move mountains and work miracles!!!

2. I guess our limited screens experiment is working well.  In the past three weeks alone, Noah has read 7 books (I'm not talking about little piddly books, I'm talking big thick real books!!), Callie has read three, and Lucy is reading almost one a day.  They are all reading really well in both languages!

3. This is fun CNN article on some cool trips and oddities found in this country.

4. Justin leaves tomorrow for a conference involving our company leaders from across the country.  I'm praying that it is a really good time of equipping, refining our vision to move out east, and fun with like-minded folks!

5. The weather here is making everyone crazy!  Fall lasted forever, and it seemed like winter would never start.  Then overnight winter was here, complete with snow.  As quickly as it came it left a week or so later.  Now, the weather is so mild.  I've even turned off our heat.  Unfortunately we haven't gotten near the needed amount of rain (winter is our rainy season).  So, I'm guessing, there are going to be major water cuts all spring and summer!  UGH!

6. Last week Justin and I were desperate to see a movie for date night.  The only English film playing was The Secret Life of Walter Mitty.  I hadn't even heard of it, but it turned out to be so good.  I think it's even PG.  The story is sweet, there is an adventure/travel and beautiful scenery element (which we love), and a bit of a rom-com vibe.  I would recommend it.

7. If you live in KY, PLEASE go out to the Culver's Restaurant on Reynolds Road on Monday January 20th between 4 and 8.  The good folks at Culver's will donate %10 of their proceeds during that time to the group that is coming on a short term trip this summer!  If you don't live in KY, we still love you, and you can give to them, too.  Just shoot me an email and I give you the details.  Please give a little bit.  Plane tickets are so expensive and we really need to get this team here!

8. If you are interested in joining the group (no matter where you're from!) coming this summer to serve, please let me know.  We've had a couple of last minute dropouts and would love to add some volunteers!!  It promises to be amazing!!!

That's quite a bit of randomness for you today! Hope that your day is great!!


Come, everyone! Clap your hands!
    Shout to God with joyful praise!
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For the Lord Most High is awesome.
    He is the great King of all the earth.

Psalm 47:1-2


Monday, January 13, 2014

Redemption Story

Like I mentioned the other day, I have had the privilege to be a part of an amazing redemption story.  Although I am pretty certain that adoption is not what the Lord has for us, I have gotten to sit on the sidelines of many adoption stories.  I've had good friends who were adopted.  I've walked along friends as they were adopting locally and internationally- one child and sibling groups.  I've had friends whose hearts were broken by adoption when the birth mother has changed her mind or the judge has given custody to another.

In all this, I think adoption is one of our most powerful demonstrations of the Lord's love and pursual of us.  Take the story I shared last week for example...

A precious baby boy was born out of wedlock.  He had no country to call his own.  No idea who his father may be.  And, his mother could not care for him and most of the time did not even want him.  He was doomed from the start.

Meanwhile, in another city, far away, a couple had been unable to have children..  In desperation, they had set aside the month of December to fast, pray, and seek the Lord- begging them for a child of their own.  As the new year dawned, they learned of a child who had been abandoned and needed a miracle.  Immediately, they turned to the Lord and asked if they could pursue this orphan.

They felt the Lord urging them ahead and they began to hope that this was their son.  But, the path toward parenthood has not and will not be easy.  As a child without a nationality, the bureaucracy seems insurmountable.  But the Lord is faithful and He provides.

Do you know that someone felt the Lord prompting them to give a large financial gift to our friends at the end of the year?  Of course, this was before the adoption was even on the horizon... or should I say, before the adoption was on our horizon.  Our faithful Father was laying a path, not paving a superhighway, but laying a path, brick by brick, slowly in front of our friends.  And they were obediently taking each step with their eyes on the Father, not their own desires.

Our friends contacted the donor and asked if they could use some of the money towards the adoption.  We all know that adoption is not cheap, and the legal gymnastics involved with this adoption were going to be expensive.  Would you believe that the donor had several adopted children and was more than happy for the money to be used in that way!

Again, the Lord was working faithfully- knitting a family together.

(If our friends were without integrity, our friends could easily find some local guy and pay him off to put his name on the birth certificate.  That would give the child a nationality and make him easily adoptable.)

So, once this child has been granted legal refugee status he become adoptable and gains local nationality.  With that, he can get the proper identification papers needed to see a doctor.  Did I mention this precious orphan has some minor health problems that could easily heal with proper care?  However, physicians cannot treat him while he has no identity.  Also, as soon as he receives his refugee status, our friends can begin the process of adopting him.

Everyone involved knew that our friends were the parents for this child.  They come from a country where the adoption process is relatively easy and painless.  Once the legalities are cleared up on this side, he will officially become a citizen of his parents' passport country.  Praise the Lord, they don't have to return to their country and begin the immigration and naturalization process, which in many countries can be quite lengthy.  The family can stay right here, get the medical care the baby needs, and begin to bond.

It's beautiful and complicated.  But the crux of the whole story is there was a child- weak and helpless, dirty and ill.  He had no place to call home and no mother or father to care for him, kiss his chubby cheeks, and tell him how beloved he is.

But, the Lord was working in the unseen realm.  He was preparing a future for this child.  Regardless of the circumstances, every cell in this child's body was formed by the Lord with tender care.  He was raising up parents that would give this child a glimpse of His deep abiding love.  He was even providing the money before the need was realized.
Mother and son meeting for the first time.

This child's story is a story of redemption.  But, you don't have to be an orphan  health concerns born to and abandoned by an illegal prostitute to experience the Lord's redemption.  I think we are all like that poor baby.  Dirty and helpless, full of sin and desperate for a Father to tell us we are beloved and give us a future.  And so, He did it.  Jesus while fully God, in a most mysterious way, lowered himself and became human.  He walked the earth and suffered the same trials and tribulations that we do.  He went even farther and allowed himself to be shamed and tortured.

Why did He do it?

Again, the Lord was working faithfully- knitting a family together.  Through the blood of Jesus, the dreadful debt that we owe has been paid.  We can approach the Lord- not as aloof judge criticizing our every action and thought, but as loving Father.  When we acknowledge Him, he swoops us into His arms, strokes our cheek lovingly, and calls us His beloved children.

You see, He not only redeems us from our fate, the pit of hell, He puts a robe on our shoulders, a ring on our finger, and gives us a seat at the family table.

That is what He is doing for this precious orphan, and that is what He has done for me and you!  Praise the Lord!


Sunday, January 12, 2014

Sunday Sneak Peek: Baking with my Boy

I ran across this recipe (we changed the name to Super Monster Brownies!) and it haunted me all day.  Finally, when we hit a lull in the action this afternoon, Noah and I decided to try and make them.  The results were delicious!




They were so good they made Noah's eyes do this:


The cookie dough on the bottom didn't really rise well.  You only use half of the dough for the brownies.  So we went ahead and made cookies with the rest.  They didn't rise well either.  So, if we ever make these again, I'd use my tried and true Tollhouse Chocolate Chip Cookie recipe.  Also, ours weren't as beautifully layered as the picture on the recipe because we didn't have enough Oreos to make a full layer.  We had to spread them out a bit.  Regardless of the sparse Oreos and flat cookie dough, this dessert was delicious, and it was fun to do something special with my boy!

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Would you Pray?

I could really use your prayers for a situation that I am helping with.

I heard about an abandoned baby and immediately connected the people caring for the baby with my dear friends who are desperate for a child.  My friends would love to adopt this precious baby boy.  However, as the child of an African trafficked prostitute, who is most likely illegal, it is going to be really difficult.

With the help of a lawyer, the mother has given away her rights and custody to the child.  But, thus far we haven't been able to get him any type of official paperwork or identification.  He has a few minor health concerns.  Without the identification, physicians cannot treat him (even private), and, of course, he cannot be adopted.  There are all sorts of international laws that govern adoption- ironically to trying and stop human trafficking.

We have been able to find a lawyer who is pursuing legal refugee status for the child.  If he gains that status, he could legally be adopted in this country as a ward of the UN.  Otherwise, he will most likely have to (somehow) be returned to his mother's passport country in Africa to be placed in an orphanage.

Would you please pray for a miracle?  Pray for the lawyer to find the right information and be able to produce the correct papers.  Pray for a benevolent judge who would grant the baby refugee status and then allow him to be adoptable.  Finally, please pray for all the folks involved.  Pray for the sweet family, who already has three really small children, that are caring for the baby.  Pray for my friends' hearts to be strong and trust the Lord in all of this.  And, finally, please pray that this baby will be adopted by my friends.

We know that God has big plans for this precious baby.  His mother tried to abort him 5 different times with different types of abortion drugs.  After he was born, a man involved with the mother was going to try to sell the baby.  But, the sweet family caring for him pursued the mother and begged her not to do that.  He has only lived a short while, but his life has been spared by the Almighty God.  Now, we are begging Him to give this story a happy ending!

Friday, January 10, 2014

Reminiscing...

As I was going through some files on my computer, I found this.  It is about 2 years old.  It is probably my favorite video ever...

Pop Goes the Weasel from Elizabeth on Vimeo.

And as a bonus, a few throwbacks from the early days...

Callie's Time to Shine from Elizabeth on Vimeo.

Sing A-Long With Lucy from Elizabeth on Vimeo.

Sand Trap #3 from Elizabeth on Vimeo.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Conspiracy Theory

I am pretty sure that silly bands, Polly Pockets, the rainbow loom, and possibly Legos were invented and perpetuated by the company that also manufactures Prozac.  All those little pieces everywhere are enough to cause any parent to need medication!

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Praising the Kids

I will be really honest and tell you that I tend to be more critical than encouraging.  I hate that, and am trying to change it.  

Do yall know who Jim Bob Duggar is?  He is the father to 19 children (Lawdy mercy! I feel faint at the thought of that!), a very strong Christian, former congressman, and on a reality tv show.  I have always been interested in this family.  They seem to really thrive and walk out their faith for all to see.  Not only that, but from everything I have read they are very genuine and exude joy.

I don't know about you, but I don't do 1/4 as well as them, and I only have 3 kids!  I know nothing in this life should be about comparison.  Rather, I wonder what I can learn from such a large family who are doing so well.

Here is a good word from Jim Bob that I read on their website this week:

"Jim Bob and Michelle purpose to praise their children ten times more than they correct them. According to Jim Bob, when parents give up their right to a spotless home, then they are free to focus on the positive and praise their children for the things they have done right. Instead of reprimanding a well-meaning child for splashing water all over the kitchen counter, praise them for washing the dishes. When a little one spills milk on the floor while fixing breakfast, praise them for their initiative. After all, practice makes perfect."

I think this could be a key to joy and contentment for the whole family.  I am trying to put it into practice!

Monday, January 6, 2014

Vege- what?!

Last night over a lovely beef stew dinner, Lucy announced that she wanted to be a vegetarian.  We all sort of chuckled and said, "But, Lucy you love meat!  Vegetarians don't eat meat."

She got sort of sad and teary and said, "But I really love animals and I want to help them!".

Thats when we realized that Lucy wants to be a VETERINARIAN not a vegetarian!  HA!


Sunday, January 5, 2014

Just Doing Our Part!

Today while watching our dear coworkers' children we have worked very hard to en-culturate them.

You see, they are an amazing British couple, Oxford educated, and as smart and proper as they come.  So... when we got our hands on their boys we made sure to introduce them to "What does the Fox Say?"  I realize that this isn't and American song.  But it is new to the boys, and it is right up there with the fine entertainment that America exports!

Our friends also report that after playing with our kids it takes awhile for their boys' American accents to fade away!  HA!  Lots of third culture kids can slip into and out of accents as well as languages in nothing flat!

I bet they won't be asking us to watch their boys again any time soon!

Sunday Sneak Peek

We were behind this on the highway the other day.



You just never know what you are going to find on the roads here!

Friday, January 3, 2014

Guess Who's the Happiest Girl on Earth?!



Little Lucy, of course!! 

When she came out of school last night she was a snaggletooth!

Thursday, January 2, 2014

The Lord is More Than Able

I am declaring 2014 The Lord is Able year!

It's been two months since I was laying my list of how our big move wasn't possible before the Lord.  Just like the loving father He is, he gently quieted my fears and asked me, "Am I not able?"!  To that, I had to answer, yes.  Yes, sir, you are more than able.  And it has been full steam ahead since then!

This is my verse for the year.


"When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth.  I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit.  Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.  And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is.  May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.
 Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.  Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen."  Ephesians 3:14-21

 (I need to look on Etsy or somewhere and find a beautiful printable and get this verse posted up in my home!  Please tell me if you have a site you recommend.)

Do you have a word or verse for 2014?  If so, link up in the comments!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

You are Beloved

Yall, as I was going through my posts from this year, I came across this one that I felt was straight from the Lord.  So I was to take the opportunity to repost it.  I hope you don't mind the redundancy.  But, the one thing you need to know to start out 2014 well is that you are beloved...

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Well, Prince George is here!  Mom and I have been excitedly checking the news every now and again waiting for Kate to go into labor, waiting for the baby to be born, waiting to hear the gender, and waiting to find out his name.  It seems like the whole world has been anxiously awaiting the birth of this child.  And the funny thing is it doesn't really affect hardly any of us at all.  He won't be our king, after all.

Still, the whole world has been excitedly waiting.

Then once he arrived people began to celebrate and gather and talk about him.  It's not every day that a prince is born.

As I was thinking about this new baby the Lord spoke to me.  He said, "that's the way I rejoice over every baby that is born!"

Yall!  It honestly took me by surprise.  As I looked at pictures on the internet, I compared them to how the angels are rejoicing over you and me.


The way that love tenderly oozes from a new father's eyes can't even compare to the love in our Heavenly Father's eyes for us.


The way that people have anticipated his arrival and gleefully cheered his birth is a tiny glimpse at how our Heavenly Father delights in us... minus the iPhones!  

Yall, this prince has arrived.  But every second all around the world sons and daughters of the King are born.  Praise HIS name!  Their arrivals may be a bit more meager and most likely less celebrated on earth.  But, the angels in heaven rejoice are rejoicing.

Unfortunately, most of these princes and princesses have no idea of their royal heritage. Some never hear the good news.  Others reject it and look to the world to see what it has to offer.  But every baby born on this earth is equally cherished and beloved by its Heavenly Father, and each one has the opportunity to inherit the Kingdom that is never ending.  

He not only calls us His, He calls us His BELOVED children.